This gathering is an open discussion centered on grief in relationships, especially quieter shifts like de-escalation, role changes, fading closeness, or imagined futures no longer fitting. In monogamous, polyamorous, or platonic structures, change is constant, yet we lack language or rituals for such losses. Explore: grief while still in a relationship; subtle internal changes; feeling not allowed to grieve; friendship drift like breakups; practices for metabolizing loss; distinguishing grief, jealousy, entitlement; how grieving improves relationships. No blame, create space to name unspoken experiences, prevent resentment, support transitions. Organic conversation guided by room reflections. Around 20 people, open to all relational styles. Hosts: Zoran (3 years in sex-positive spaces, Mashti community, facilitates safe discussions); Margherita (queer woman exploring polyamory with curiosity).